Many people have done things that may have been inappropriate at some point that eventually caused harm or hurt in some way or another.
However, I do not dwell on past hurts or those who have caused harm. Simply because I have, in fact, forgiven everyone who has.
People and situations arise in our lives to help us grow and become the people that God intended us to be. Holding on to past hurts serves no purpose in life. I feel that incumbent upon us to learn whatever lesson those injuries can teach. Allowing anyone to hurt you, to the point of unforgiveness is pointless. What was done in the past is no longer happening. Therefore, allowing it to haunt you today is counterproductive.
There are people that will intentionally try to cause great harm, however, they are unsuccessful in their attempts. Our perception at the time a particular circumstance is occurring plays a major part. People are who they are. It will not change them by holding on to bitterness or hatred towards them. Know without a doubt, that Allah is our provider, protector, guide, healer, strength, and ever-present confidant. He knows every plan and, He will not allow evil to prevail. 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
Hanifah Abdul Haqq
Peninsula Interfaith Counseling Center LLC 